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Someone not show up for a date?

Have you been stood up for a date recently?  Yeah, we know sometimes it hurts.  Plus it can be embarrassing to say the least.  So, what do you do and how do you get over getting stood up.

Take a look at the facts first.

First of all, clam down.  You need to consider some things first.  Like, is this the first time this has happened?  Have you even heard from them yet?

If this is the first time something like this came up, you have to give it a chance first before you can make any assumptions.  Maybe something really did happen in the persons life.  But, you have to give it a day before you can come to any real conclusions.

After that, you can start to get a feel for what really happened.  Of course, if the they didn’t call you the by the second day then you can assume you were stood up.  And it’s up to you if you even want to hear what they have to say if they do call a day or two later.

Getting Stood Up Hurts.

We know it can cause some pain, especially if you really liked the person.  But you have to consider them.  If someone did this to you, do you really want to be with a person like this anyhow?

If someone you are dating does this on a regular basis, then you are just setting yourself up for pain later on.  There is no reason to keep going out with someone who does nothing but hurt you all the time.

It just causes you to feel sad.  And disappointment is not something you really want to be a part of.  You can do much better.

Remember, the longer you hold on to a someone like this, the less likely it will be you find the right person for you.

How to deal with being stood up.

It may take you some time to realize and figure out all of your frustration.  But, you have to give yourself a little time to work it out.  Even if you really liked this person.

Tell yourself, you do not deserve this kind of treatment and you won’t put up with it.

Most of all calm down and realize you will find the right person someday soon.  Talk to friends and family members if you need to.  This way you can get all of your aggravation out.

This is an important step to the healing process.  Realize it may take a little time but things will always work out in the end.

Treat yourself to something you like to do.  And, do whatever it is that makes you feel better.

Remember, if the person calls, it’s up to you if you take the call.  But just remember, sometimes you have to stand your ground and have self preservation.  You don’t want to be someones puppet.

Final Advice for Getting Stood Up.

Ultimately you have to take care of yourself.  Now, sometimes they may be worth it because something did come up.  If that is the case, then they should get another shot.

But, if this continues to happen, then it’s time to say goodbye.  You have to be strong for you, no one else will do it for you.  Sure, you may feel sad for a while but it will all pass, sooner or later.

Once you feel better about the situation, then realize not everyone will do this to you and get out there so you can find someone who will be good to you and do what they say.  And you won’t have to deal with getting stood up any longer.

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